How To Use Delay Sprays – Your Questions Answered

image of me holding a delay spray in my handHave you recently bought a delay spray or are thinking of trying one? If so, you might have a few questions about using it correctly.

This is probably one of the most common topics readers ask me about, so in this article I’ll hopefully cover all the questions I’m regularly asked.

And if you’re more interested in general information about them, you might prefer to read my article about the pros and cons of desensitizing sprays.

Not all sprays are the same

I think it’s important to start off by saying that not all delay sprays and creams work the same way. Many are quite similar, but there are often very important differences.

That’s why it’s important to check the instructions they come with, and the manufacturer’s website. There is, of course, a small problem with that in some cases: not all sprays have a dedicated website with instructions.

Unfortunately, you’ll find lots of generic lidocaine sprays for sale online that have limited instructions. That’s why in my opinion it’s better to stick with the brands which have a dedicated team behind them, rather than a generic product with a cool name, but no support.

A standard way to apply a delay spray

image of several delay sprays used to assess the pros and consIf the spray you’ve bought doesn’t have clear instructions, you have three choices: either try and find instructions, leave it and find a different product, or experiment by following the standard instructions other products give.

You’ll see below that I’ve tied to answer the key questions based on both my personal experience, combined with the information provided by four of the biggest delay spray companies – Promescent, Stud 100, Super dragon 6000 and Adam & Eve.

Most lidocaine and benzocaine sprays will work in a similar ways to the four I’ll refer to in this article. However, it’s important to stress that if you follow these instructions for a different product, or one with different ingredients altogether, you do so at your own risk.

1. Start slow

My preference is to start with just 1 spray, so you can check if your skin will tolerate the ingredients. Most people tolerate them fine, but in my opinion if you’re going to spray your penis, it’s worth being cautious.

And if you find that just one or two sprays works for you, the product will last longer and you’ll save money.

This is the advice the four companies give about the quantity of sprays:

  • Promescent: apply 3 sprays or more, but no more than 10.
  • Stud 100: apply 3 to 5 sprays.
  • Super dragon: apply 2 sprays.
  • Adam & Eve: apply 2 to 5 sprays.

Ideally, you should be able to find the minimum number of sprays that works best for you, and then repeat that number when you next need to. Some guys may need 1, others 5 – you just won’t know until you try the product.

2. Target the right area

You can get conflicting advice on where exactly to spray. I think the best thing is to experiment and spray on the most sensitive parts of your penis, not to just cover it all. If you do, there’s a higher chance you’ll numb yourself too much. That can result in erection loss, or just not enjoying the sex as much.

Here’s what the main companies say:

  • Promescent: the underside of the penis head, and some on the underside of the shaft.
  • Stud 100: the head and shaft of the penis.
  • Super dragon: the head.
  • Adam & Eve: the head and shaft.

Once you’ve sprayed it, gently rub it in until it appears to be absorbed. This shouldn’t take more than 10-20 seconds to achieve, though maybe longer if you rub it into the shaft as well as the head.

And again, with some experimentation, you should be able to find which part of your penis needs targeting, and which you can leave alone.

3. Flaccid or erect?

It doesn’t matter if you apply it when flaccid or erect. It will work equally well, so it’s up to you to decide what works best for you and your partner.

4. How long before sex to spray?

Again, different sprays have different timings. None of them allow you to have sex immediately after spraying though. There’s always a waiting time to make sure it’s absorbed and is working, and also so it doesn’t transfer to your partner.

  • Promescent: 5-10 minutes.
  • Stud 100: 5-10 minutes.
  • Super dragon: 5 minutes.
  • Adam & Eve: 5 minutes.

So you can see that 5-10 minutes is a pretty safe bet if you’re using a lidocaine or benzocaine spray.

5. Do I need to wash it off before sex?

This is probably one of the main areas of confusion, since the companies rarely tell you exactly what they mean by wash off the excess. With a cloth, water, soapy water, straight away, just before sex?

Promescent is unique in that the spray has an absorption technology meaning you don’t need to wipe it off before sex. However, they do recommend wiping it off with a damp cloth before oral sex.

For all the others, here’s what you need to do:

  • Spray and rub it in.
  • Wait for the time the instructions recommend. It’s a good time to give your partner some attention while you leave your penis alone for a while.
  • Wipe off any excess with a soft, damp cloth just before you have oral or penetrative sex. Even if you can’t see any excess, you might want to give it a wipe anyway.
  • Wash your hands.
  • Wash again after sex.

6. Wash your hands

Very few companies mention this, but those that do say it’s important. You should wash your hands after applying it to make sure you don’t transfer it to your partner, or get it in other sensitive areas such as the eyes.

7. How long will the delay spray last?

This very much depends on the person and the spray. But in my experience, most of them keep you numb for at least an hour.

8. Can you choose to have unprotected sex or use a condom?

This again depends on the spray, so it’s important to check with the manufacturer.

  • Promescent: both are ok.
  • Stud 100: both are ok, use latex condoms.
  • Super dragon: both are ok.
  • Adam & Eve: both are ok – use latex condoms.

9. Can you have oral sex?

Once again, some say yes and others that it’s best to avoid it. The reasons usually being a bad taste or the risk of transference to your partner.

  • Promescent: yes, as long as you wash it off before.
  • Stud 100: yes, but wait up to 15 minutes first.
  • Super dragon: no because the taste might be unpleasant.
  • Adam & Eve: can’t find information about this.

10. Can you use it if you’re trying to get pregnant, or already are pregnant?

Most sprays advise against using them if you’re trying to get pregnant, or if your partner already is pregnant. Here’s a helpful quote from the Promescent website:

lidocaine has not been proven to be safe to use in pregnancy. We recommend to err on the side of caution

As for those that don’t state if you can or not, I would avoid using them.

11. Preventing wastage of the spray

A clever trick I got from a reader is to first spray into a small glass. Then you can dip your finger into the liquid formed and rub it into the area you want to on your penis. This can help prevent wastage by the spray missing some of the penis.

The alternative is of course to spray from close up – 3 to 3 cm away should be fine.

12. What about delay creams?

Although sprays are the most common form of desensitizing product, there are some in cream form. Personally, I’m not a fan of creams, as you can never be sure if you’re using the same amount each time. However, with creams you can follow the same standard guidelines above.

Your thoughts & questions

Do you have any experience with using delay sprays or creams, and have any advice to offer other readers about the best way to use them? Or do you have any questions I haven’t answered here?

And if you found the article helpful, I’d really appreciate a quick comment to let me know.

You might also like

If you’d like to try a delay spray, take a look at my review of the top 10 delay sprays. There are some which either don’t work well or have ingredients which can cause unpleasant side effects. So I recommend seeing what I have to say about them.

And if you’re unsure if this is the right option for you, you might also find it useful to read my thoughts on choosing a premature ejaculation treatment.

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    • Hi Bilal
      There’s not much advice available about this, but I think they say it’s best to avoid using it for now. I don’t know if that applies to both protected and unprotected sex. Maybe if you use a condom and are careful to wash it off first and be 100% sure none will transfer to your partner.
      Ethan

  • Hiii
    This is Rajesh, I have a small doubt about this,when i am doing sex my penis was felt down automatically after few minutes. If I use this spray can my penis stand for long time without dropping?

    • Hi Rajesh
      Unfortunately, delay sprays sometimes lead to erection problems. Are you looking for help with premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction though?
      Ethan

  • I have been using dragon spray and seriously I haven’t seen any action by my penis ejaculate..this issue has been happening for about two times..please any solution to my problem

    • Hi Derrick
      Unfortunately, I don’t understand what you mean exactly – can you describe the problem in more detail please?
      Thanks
      Ethan

  • Hi Ethan
    Thank you for explaining things further.
    I have been having some premature ejaculation problems and a friend asked me to use the Dragon Delay spray.
    I have followed the instructions and have tried it twice but I didn’t see any result and I have stop using it.
    Is my problem stronger than the product? Pls help me

    • Hi Bonzy
      You’re welcome!
      I wouldn’t say the problem is too much for the product. It might just be that your PE isn’t helped by desensitizing. You could try a different spray just to check. But if it still doesn’t help, then you will have to try a different method.
      Ethan

  • Great article! Thank you for taking the time to put all this useful information together. I bought a spray recently, and wasn’t sure about using it, but you’ve answered all my questions here, except one. How many times a day, or week, is it thought to be safe to use lidocaine on your penis?

    • Hi Yan
      I’m glad the article was helpful! To be honest, I’m not entirely sure. I imagine you can use it every day if you want to, but how many times a day, I really don’t know. Sorry!
      Ethan

  • Hi ethen my question is that in normal sex we feel it before that sperm is coming from penis but by using spray will we feel the same?

    • Hi Shani
      If I understand your question right, yes, you should still feel it when you’re ejaculating.
      Ethan

  • I’m using stud 100 currently and was wondering if anyone has phased out using one. Reducing sprays whilst practicing pelvic exercises and then phasing out the spray all together?

    Thanks

    • Hi Dave
      Yes, me! I didn’t use stud 100, but another similar spray and also condoms from time to time. But I wasn’t doing just pelvic exercises, but other techniques as well such as the start and stop. The point though is that I eventually found I didn’t need to use any desensitizing product to be able to last longer.
      Ethan

  • Hi, I got this dooz spray used but everytime I use it my wife doesnt get wet and peperish.pls is there any solution to this or is it the spray I should change? Thank u.

  • hi
    i just planning to use delay spray so i want to know i can use without condom or not?and also which is the best product in market.appreciate for your advice please.

    • Hi Prad
      Different sprays have different guidance as to whether or not you can use a condom. My personal favorite is promescent, which you can read my review of here.
      Ethan

  • Question? My husband and I were in the middle of having sex about 10 mins into it his penis went completely limp. Anyone know what could of been the reasoning? 2nd time he’s used the delay spray. He used the promescent one. Just confused what could of happened bc the first time this didn’t happen.

    • Hi Jess
      Sometimes delay sprays can cause erection problems unfortunately – usually when too much is applied. He could try using less next time. Having said that, it can sometimes happen for other reasons. If he’s only just started using it, he may be anxious about whether or not it’s going to work. 10 mins is a pretty good time for someone who’s using a delay spray though, so I’m assuming that’s good news at least!
      Ethan

  • Hi there!
    I prefer to use himalaya himcolin gel
    do i need to clean my pen.is before I doing sex.and how do i clean my penis?

    • Hi Bob
      I haven’t used this one myself. I just found these instructions for it on one website though:

      Directions for using Himcolin Gel

      Himcolin gel should be applied topically. Apply adequate quantity on the penis and the pubic region with a gentle massage before sexual intercourse. Avoid using Himcolin Gel on the glans penis (head of the penis)

    • Hi Lucky
      You can use a cloth with warm water to give it a wipe. You don’t need to have a shower or anything too intense – just a wet cloth to wipe yourself is enough.
      Ethan