Readers often ask me in comments and emails to recommend things that can improve their love lives. And guys sometimes ask what I’ve used myself and had success or enjoyment with.

So I’ve decided to start this list of my top sex guides, products and accessories – all of which I’ve either personally benefited from or been impressed by when I tried them.

I’ll keep this list updated as I discover and test out new ways to improve your love life and confidence in the bedroom. Hopefully you’ll find something here which does the trick for you.

Premature Ejaculation

  • Ejaculation Trainer – a self-help program which can help you overcome premature ejaculation naturally. It’s what I personally used a couple of years ago and it marked a turning point in my battle with premature ejaculation.
  • Promescent  – the desensitizing spray I had the best results with, and still my recommended temporary solution to premature ejaculation. If you need something with minimal fuss to help you last longer straight away, it’s potentially an effective option.
  • Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit – a realistic vagina is an effective and enjoyable way to improve your sexual stamina. The Stamina Training Unit is made from high quality silicon, feels great and has a useful booklet that explains the techniques to practice.

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Penis Enlargement

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  • Penis enlargement techniques – here you can find out about the different approaches to penis enlargement, with a summary of the scientific evidence for their effectiveness. You’ll also find information about the average penis size and easy ways you can make it appear bigger.

Erectile Dysfunction

  • Hydromax penis pump – Penis pumps can be an effective way to deal with erectile dysfunction, and can also increase your penis size temporarily. The Hydromax is one of the best pumps available if this is something you’re interested in.

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Sex Guides

  • Revolutionary Sex – a masterclass in understanding what really makes a guy a great lover. It teaches you how to truly connect with your partner, properly adopt the make role sexually and give your partner better orgasms.

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  • How to give a woman oral sex – this article was written by a woman with the aim of helping guys understand how to give great oral sex. It’s full of useful tips for beginners and experienced partners alike.

Sex Toys & Accessories

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