My recommended resources, sex guides & products

Readers often ask me in comments or emails to recommend things that can improve their love lives. And guys sometimes ask what I’ve used myself and had success or enjoyment with.

So I’ve decided to start this list of my top sex guides, products and accessories, all of which I’ve either personally benefited from or been impressed by when I tried them.

I’ll keep this list updated as I discover and test out new ways to improve your love life and confidence in the bedroom. Hopefully you’ll find something here which does the trick for you.

Premature Ejaculation

  • Ejaculation Trainer – an effective self-help program which can help you overcome premature ejaculation naturally. It’s what I personally used a couple of years ago and it marked a turning point in my battle with premature ejaculation.
  • Promescent – the desensitizing spray I had the most success with in the early days of dealing with premature ejaculation. If you need something with minimal fuss to help you last longer straight away, it’s a great choice.

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Penis Enlargement

  •  Penis Advantage – Penis Advantage is the safest and best penis enlargement method I’ve found. It involves no supplements, pills or extra equipment. It teaches you a wide range of stretching and jelqing exercises, with videos explaining how to do them.

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  • Penis enlargement techniques – here you can find out about the different approaches to penis enlargement, with a summary of the scientific evidence for their effectiveness. You’ll also find information about average penis sizes and ways to make it appear bigger.

Sex Guides

  • Lick by Lick – this is the ultimate guide to giving a woman oral sex. If you’re not sure what you’re doing, or just need some fresh ideas, this will keep your partner happy for a very long time.
  • Revolutionary Sex – a masterclass in understanding what really makes a guy a great lover. It teaches you how to truly connect with your partner, properly adopt the make role sexually and give your partner better orgasms.
  • Revive Her Drive – if you have problems with your partner just not being as into sex as you, this will give you plenty of ideas to reignite the passion.

Sex Toys

  • Fleshlight – the ultimate realistic vagina for single guys. Modeled on famous porn stars and made from a wonderfully soft silicone material, any Fleshlight will change your solo fun time forever.
  • Tenga Flip-Hole – a male masturbator with a difference. You can adjust a complex set of internal stimulation points and suction effect to provide the exact sensations that float your boat.

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  • Passion lube – this is the best sex lubricant I’ve tried. It’s water based, made from natural ingredients and doesn’t stain. It can also be also be used with condoms and sex toys.
  • Utimi cock ring – there are lots of cock rings, but most are either cheaply made or only have one use. The Utimi is rechargeable, made from silicon and with 7 speeds. It’s a great toy for couples to experiment with.