The Best Sex Toys For Men

photo of two example sex toys for men - a fleshlight and tenga model

There are two solid reasons to delve into the erotic realm of sex toys if you’re a man. Firstly, a decent sex toy will feel considerably better than Madam Palm and her five lovely daughters.

Secondly, if you’re trying to improve your sexual stamina in your own time, it makes sense to make it as realistic as possible. If you only ever practice with your hand, there’s a massive leap in stimulation to cope with when you next have sex with another person.

Sure, a silicone sex toy won’t give you the same emotional stimulation, flood of hormones, and physical sensations. But it’s a good bridge between your hand and real sex.

So even if you don’t take my recommendations or use my links below, please do yourself a favor and get a sex toy from somewhere if you struggle with your endurance in bed.

With that said, here are some of the best sex toys you can get for under $100. I think that’s a decent upper price limit for sex toys without needing to take out a mortgage for a creepy Japanese sex doll.

1. Fleshlight Flight

fleshlight flight sex toy

The Flight is a remodeling of the classic Fleshlight design, smaller in size, and less blatant than the giant pink lips of previous versions.

The black casing and translucent skin color scheme also look better. Along with the streamlined shape of the case, it has a sleeker and more modern feel to it.

The hole itself has an unusual vortex shape. And the smaller size and dotted rib design make for a tighter experience than previous fleshlights.

Key features

  • Smaller and sleeker than other Fleshlights.
  • Modern color scheme and neutral entrance shape.
  • Very tight feel, with a strong suction effect.
  • Ribbed dots give powerful stimulation.
  • Easy to clean and lasts a long time.

The only potential downside is that the smaller size means men with a very wide girth, or who are longer than six inches, might find it a bit too tight.

So this is one for men who like the tightest possible experience. The design is a big improvement for Fleshlight too, so there’s a lot to like about it.

2. Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit

fleshlight stamina training unit

The Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit was created both for pleasure and as a tool for improving your sexual endurance.

Fleshlights always feel fantastic, but some are designed in a way that feel more intense. The Stamina Training Unit is especially stimulating as it combines a tight design with lot of ribs and contours, which results in it being a serious challenge to your control during sex.

Key features

  • The skin is made from a silky soft silicone.
  • The internal ribs and contours provide different sensations in each section.
  • You can adjust the tightness and grip to provide stronger suction effects.
  • It’s easy to clean and maintain.
  • It comes with instructions for using it to improve your lasting time.

The only real difference between this Fleshlight and the hundreds of other designs is that it comes with a manual explaining how to use it to last longer. And the name itself obviously makes it seem like it’s the right one for the job. But really, if the gold and pink color scheme don’t do it for you, any Fleshlight will work just fine.

Having said that, the tightness and ribs of the Stamina Training Unit will challenge how long you can hold out for. So if you can train yourself to last 5-10 minutes with this, it will go a long way to helping you last longer during sex too.

3. Tenga Flip Hole

tenga flip hole

Japanese company Tenga produce a range of unusual sex toys, with the original Flip Hole being the most popular.

The internal structure is seriously complex, with more ribs, contours and stimulation points than you’ll find in any other stroker. And the skin is smooth and soft on the penis, yet grips and stimulates you in all the right ways.

There are three pads on the side which you can squeeze to adjust the level of stimulation. So you can change the entrance tightness, the level of suction, and how it stimulates the head.

Key features

  • The internal ribs, orbs, and contours provide pleasure in different ways in each section.
  • The material feels soft on the skin, but you can squeeze it tight enough to simulate a deep suction effect.
  • It feels satisfyingly tight.
  • You can adjust the sensations manually, providing more variety.
  • It’s easy to clean as you can open it up in half.
  • You can use it in the shower or bath.

The main downside is the size – if you’re seven inches or longer, you’ll only be partially stimulated. And despite looking like electronic buttons on the unit, they are just squeeze points, so you can manually adjust the sensations.

Overall, the Tenga Flip Hole is a decent alternative to the more established fleshlight brand. The main plus is definitely the option to change the feeling manually with the pads.

It’s not electronic, as the buttons might suggest, but it still gives you more control and variety than most other toys.

4. Fleshlight shower mount attachment

fleshlight shower mount

Add the shower mount to any Fleshlight, and you can recreate the unique pleasure of hands-free sex in the shower.

All you need to do is unscrew the end cap of your Fleshlight, attach it to the strong suction cup, and stick it to a tile at the right thrusting height.

key features

  • Sex in the shower is amazing (obviously).
  • It’s hands free.
  • It can be used in the shower, bath or any surface that will take a suction cup.
  • It’s easy to attach and holds strong.
  • You can twist the end cap to provide different suction effects.
  • It’s easy to clean and lasts a long time.

Although it’s sturdy enough for normal use, the suction cup isn’t invincible. So you can’t go beast mode on it.

And if too much water runs into the Fleshlight, you’ll end up using a lot of lube. So correct placement is the key to using this one the best way.

Overall, a Fleshlight and shower mount combo do a great job of giving serious pleasure along with a little bit of fantasy.

5. Tenga Egg

tenga egg

The Tenga Egg contains a super-stretchy sleeve that you roll over your penis and grip in your hand to stroke with.

It’s so stretchy in fact, that it can fit up to 12 inches. So if normal sex toys have been a letdown, you’ll be fine with this one.

Like the Tenga Flip Hole, the material feels supple, smooth and silky on the skin. And with the pack of lube included you can create a very arousing experience.

Key features

  • It’s small and discreet.
  • The skin is soft, stretchy and feels fantastic.
  • As it sits in your hand, you can control the pressure and grip more than with normal sex toys.
  • It comes with a pack of lube.
  • Good price and lasts for several uses.

The main complaint is that it doesn’t have the same longevity as traditional strokers. You can get a few uses out of it by using a sex toy cleaning spray and cornstarch. And to be fair, for the low price, you get a good number of sessions with it.

It also makes a bit of a slurping noise when you go fast, which might be off-putting or comical, depending on your mood.

On balance, it’s a fun novelty toy if you’re looking for something new. But it’s not the best choice if you’re looking for one that will last a long time.

6. Fleshlight QuickShot

fleshlight quickshot

The Quickshot is one of the newest designs from Fleshlight. However, it’s probably my least favorite, despite a couple of points that might appeal to some people.

After successfully downsizing with the Flight, it seems Fleshlight wanted to push the compact concept even further. But I think they’ve gone too far this time, with its short 3.5 inch insertable length.

Having said that, it’s the first one that’s open at both ends. So it kind of works like a giant cock ring that you can use to stroke whatever part of your penis feels best.

Key features

  • Insertable at both ends, if you can find a good use for that!
  • Small, compact, and discreet design.
  • Very tight feel (perhaps too tight if you’re girthy).
  • Material not as soft as previous Fleshlights.
  • Doesn’t really look like a sex toy – useful if you live nosy people.

I get the idea of making the stroker smaller than previous incarnations. But much like a good game of poker, nothing beats the exciting feeling of being all in.

I also found the material lacking in softness, which along with the strangely mechanical visual design, made it distinctly unsexy.

Yes, it’s easier to clean and transport. But since I don’t really care about either of those points, I think the Quickshot missed the mark.