6 of The Best Sex Toys For Men

fleshlight flight

Bored of the same old five knuckle shuffle when the urge overcomes you? Single again and missing the intense feeling of warm flesh that even pornhub, half a bottle of lube and a hairdryer can’t match?

Let’s be clear from the outset – very few men need a sex toy to have fun and let off some steam. I guess we’re lucky that way. But in my opinion, it’s not so much a question of need, as a question of what if?

What if I had a really tight vagina I could use whenever I wanted to? What if I had one that looked like an ass? What if I could stick it to a tile in my shower and pretend my hot neighbor accidentally fell through the shared bathroom wall just as they were fantasizing about me too?

I’m a fan of sex toys (and have a good imagination). But I’m not a fan of wasting a ton of money on toys that look amazing online, but aren’t really any better than a cheaper toy, all while leaving a hole in your bank account as big as the one in their mouth.

So in this review, you’ll just find a selection of (I think) reasonably priced vagina-shaped and unknown-shaped sleeves. There are no $1000 Japanese sex dolls and no $500 anal toys with more settings than sense.

Just some decent options from Fleshlight and Tenga to play around with when you know nobody is going to walk in on you.


1. Fleshlight Flight

fleshlight flight

The Flight is a remodeling of the classic Fleshlight design, smaller in size, and less blatant than the giant pink lips of previous versions.

The external case is considerably smaller in size, which is perfect if you weren’t a fan of the giant flashlight concept.

The black casing and translucent skin color scheme also look better. Along with the streamlined shape of the case, it has a sleeker and stronger feel.

The hole itself has an unusual vortex shape. And the smaller size and dotted rib design make for a tighter experience than previous fleshlights.

Key features

  • Smaller and sleeker than other Fleshlights.
  • Masculine color scheme and neutral entrance shape.
  • Very tight feel, with a strong suction effect.
  • Ribbed dots give powerful stimulation.
  • Easy to clean and lasts for many uses.

The only complaint is that the smaller size means men with a very wide girth, or who are longer than 6 inches, might find it a bit too tight.

The skin also seems to have changed a little. Although it’s still very soft, it had a slightly oily feel on arrival. This is to protect the softness of the skin, but it meant it needed a good clean before using it.

Overall, this is one for men who like the tightest possible experience. The design is a big improvement for fleshlight too, so there’s a lot to like about it.

You can find the flight on Fleshlight.com. But I also highly recommend looking on Love Honey, as they have a wide variety of sex toys and other fun stuff that’s worth checking out.


2. Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit

fleshlight stamina training unit

The Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit was created both for pleasure and as a ‘tool’ for improving your sexual endurance.

Fleshlights always feel fantastic, with some more intense than others depending on their tightness, the internal contours, and design.

The Stamina Training Unit is especially stimulating as it’s tighter than many other models and has a lot of ribs and contours, so it provides a serious challenge to your control during sex.

Key features

  • The internal skin is made from a silky soft silicone that feels great.
  • The internal ribs and contours provide different sensations in each section.
  • You can adjust the tightness and grip to provide stronger suction effects.
  • It’s easy to clean and maintain.
  • It lasts a long time.

If I’m honest, I think you could use any sex toy to help with stamina training. The reality is that it’s not a magic wand (a giant squishy pink magic wand would be weird anyway). You need to put the effort in to practicing the right techniques for it to do its job of helping your stamina.

But if you know how to do the start and stop method, for example, then the tightness and ribs of the Stamina Training Unit will definitely provide you with an excellent challenge to how long you can hold out for.

Again, you can find this one on the Fleshlight website. And as always, I recommend checking the price on Love Honey too, which is my personal favorite of the many online sex stores.

3. Tenga Flip Hole

tenga fliphole

Japanese company Tenga produce a range of unusual sex toys, with the original Flip Hole being the most popular.

The internal structure is seriously complex, with more ribs, contours and stimulation points than you’ll find in any other stroker.

And the skin is smooth and soft on the penis, yet grips and stimulates you in all the right ways.

There are three pads on the side which you can squeeze to adjust the level of stimulation. So you can change the entrance tightness, the level of suction, and how it stimulates the head.

photo of the inside of the tenga fliphole

Key features

  • The internal ribs, orbs, and contours provide pleasure in different ways in each section.
  • The material feels soft on the skin, but you can squeeze it tight enough to simulate a deep suction effect.
  • It feels satisfyingly tight.
  • You can adjust the sensations manually, providing more variety.
  • It’s easy to clean as you can open it up in half.
  • You can use it in the shower or bath.

The main downside is the size – if you’re 7 inches or longer, you’ll only be partially stimulated.

And despite looking like electronic buttons on the unit, they are just squeeze points, so you can manually adjust the sensations.

Overall, the Tenga Flip Hole is a decent alternative to the more established fleshlight brand. The main plus is definitely the option to change the feeling manually with the pads.

It’s not electronic, as the buttons might suggest, but it still gives you more control and variety than most other toys.

You can find a wide range of Tenga toys at Love Honey. And if you search online, you might have a specific Tenga store in your home country.

4. Fleshlight shower mount attachment

fleshlight shower mount

Add the shower mount to any fleshlight, and you can recreate the unique pleasure of hands-free sex in the shower.

All you need to do is unscrew the end cap of your fleshlight, attach it to the strong suction cup, and stick it to a tile at the right thrusting height.

And when you’re finished, you can easily turn it inside out to give it a rinse and clean it in no time.

key features

  • Sex in the shower. Need we say more?
  • The hands-free concept is a lot of fun.
  • It can be used in the shower, bath or any surface that will take a suction cup.
  • It’s easy to attach to bathroom tiles, and holds strong.
  • You can twist the end cap to provide different suction effects.
  • It’s easy to clean and lasts a long time.

It feels sturdy enough for normal use, but the suction cup isn’t invincible. So you have to be a little careful when using it.

And if too much water runs into the Fleshlight, you’ll end up using a lot of lube. So correct placement is the key to using this one the best way.

Overall, the fleshlight and shower mount combo do a great job of giving serious pleasure along with a little bit of fantasy.

Find this on Fleshlight.com, or see it and other toys on Love Honey.

5. Tenga Egg

tenga egg

The Tenga Egg contains a super-stretchy sleeve that you roll over your penis and grip in your hand to stroke with.

It’s so stretchy, it can fit up to 12 inches. So if normal sex toys have been a letdown, you’ll be fine with this one.

Like the Tenga Flip Hole, the material feels supple, smooth and silky on the skin. And with the pack of lube included you can create a very arousing experience.

Key features

  • It’s small and discreet.
  • The skin is soft, stretchy and feels fantastic.
  • As it sits in your hand, you can control the pressure and grip more than with normal sex toys.
  • It comes with a pack of lube.
  • Good price and lasts for several uses.

The main complaint is that it doesn’t have the same longevity as traditional strokers. You can get a few uses out of it by using a sex toy cleaning spray and cornstarch. And to be fair, for the low price ($11.99), you get a good number of sessions with it.

It also makes a bit of a slurping noise when you go fast, which might be off-putting or comical, depending on your mood.

On balance, it’s a fun novelty toy if you’re looking for something new. But it’s not the best choice if you’re looking for one that will last a long time.

See it and all the other Tenga toys they stock below at Love Honey:

6. Fleshlight QuickShot

fleshlight quickshot

The Quickshot is one of the newest designs from Fleshlight. However, it’s probably my least favorite, despite a couple of points that might appeal to some people.

After successfully downsizing with the Flight, it seems Fleshlight wanted to push the compact concept even further. But I think they’ve gone too far this time, with its short 3.5 inch insertable length.

Having said that, it’s the first one that’s open at both ends. So it kind of works like a giant cock ring that you can use to stroke whatever part of your penis feels best.

Key features

  • Insertable at both ends, if you can find a good use for that!
  • Very small and compact design, good for travel.
  • Easier cleaning as you exit the other end!
  • Very tight feel, perhaps too tight if you have a large girth.
  • Material not as soft as previous fleshlights.
  • Doesn’t really look like a sex toy – useful if you live with someone who is both incredibly nosy and naive.

I get the idea of making the stroker smaller than previous incarnations. But much like a good game of poker, nothing beats the exciting feeling of being all in.

I also found the material lacking in softness, which along with the strangely mechanical visual design, made it distinctly unsexy.

Yes, it’s easier to clean and transport. But since I don’t really care about either of those points, I think the Quickshot missed the mark.

Once again, you can get this one either on the Fleshlight website or from Love Honey.