Sex games are a great way to bring a touch of steamy naughtiness to a love life that isn’t as exciting as it once was. But why wait until that point? They are also a great way to get to know a new partner’s tastes.
After all, both sex and games require the same key ingredient for success – fun!
So without further ado, let’s take a look at some of the best erotic games. Most require nothing more than two willing bodies and two open minds, so you can get started right away.
1. Warmer and colder
This is an excellent starting game since it requires no equipment and is very simple.
All you need to do is think of a part of your body, and your partner has to guess what you’re thinking of.
The twist? They aren’t allowed to use words, but can only guess by kissing different body parts until they get it right. You can direct them only with the words ‘warmer’ and ‘colder’. Once they get it right, it’s your turn.
2. Strip poker…or strip something!
Strip poker is arguably the king of card-based sex games – especially if you both like poker to start with.
Not a fan of poker? Why not play strip something else – snap, jenga, backgammon, whatever you both enjoy. You can make up the strip rules yourself, as well as any forfeits.
3. 30 seconds
If you’re looking for something that’s a bit more daring, but still pretty simple, a game I love is 30 seconds. Get yourself a timer, set it for 30 seconds, and lie back.
Your partner has 30 seconds to tease and pleasure you however they wish. You’re not allowed to speak or otherwise give direction. When your 30 seconds is up, you switch places.
You’re (probably) not going to get off in 30 seconds, and that’s kind of the point. This game focuses heavily on foreplay, and that’s a good thing.
4. No sex
The point of this potentially lengthy game is to try and get your partner to initiate sex. And it’s their job to try and get you to pounce on them first.
You tease, tease, tease until the other person just can’t take it anymore and jumps you, at which point they lose and you win. Except you both win, since the steady building of desire can lead to some passionately frantic sex!
How long to play the game for? Well, how long can you hold out for?
5. Battle of the sexes
Choose your weapon – tickling, pillow, naked wrestling (in oil or mud?), thumb war. Then get your partner to submit to your power, skill or hilarious facial expressions!
Whoever gives in first has to perform a sexy forfeit of the other’s choosing – of course!
6. Light as a feather
For this game, you have to try and make your partner orgasm using a sexy feather alone. No hands or tongue even. A good tip is to avoid the genitals for as long as possible to build their arousal.
This game forces you to go really slow and build up to a climax. It also allows you to find new erogenous zones that drive your partner crazy.
Don’t worry if you can’t make them reach climax with just the feather. You can always add the previous game to see how long they’re willing to lie there being teased.
And for an extra bit of kink, add some handcuffs, silk ties or rope to juxtapose intense powerlessness with the delicate sensuality of the feather.
7. 7 minutes to lift off
The idea behind this one is simple: set a timer for seven minutes, grab you partner, and get busy. You’ve got until the timer beeps to orgasm.
Don’t quite get there? No worries, except you have to take at least a ten minute break before you can try again.
Extra points if you do it in the closet or other enclosed space to make this as much like horny, fumbling youthful sex as possible.
Sex doesn’t always have to be long, and sometimes it’s better when it’s not. This game is all about speed – a hot, dirty and passionate quickie.
8. The amazing race
It’s a race in time, not distance: simply lie side by side and masturbate. Whoever comes first is the winner. Of course, it’s only right to then help your partner cross the finish line.
The prize? You get to choose a sexy reward that your partner has to provide, or share in doing.
So not only does this one remove the taboo of masturbation, it opens up the door to new ideas in the bedroom. If I win, I get to suggest something I want for next time – spanking, seeing you in a doctor’s outfit…whatever my naughty heart desires!
9. Let’s pretend
Role play can be a hugely exciting addition to your sex life, but it’s not always so natural to get into. You’ll need an initial discussion about what you both want, expect, and what the limits are.
Once you have that discussion, pretending to be something you’re not is just plain hot. Sexy police officer and criminal, nurse and patient, virgin and seductress, married woman and pool boy – whatever your deepest fantasies are.
A big advantage of role play is that it lets you do things that your normal ‘character’ wouldn’t do. And if you’re trying to bring a bit of oomph back to your sex life, this is a good thing.
Perhaps you don’t normally allow your partner to take control in your normal sex life. But once you’re playing the part of a naive virgin, for example, you might find it takes you to new places that you really enjoy.
10. Fantasy bowl
This is a sex game that requires open minds and willingness to try new things. It also requires a decent level of communication and trust.
Grab yourself a bowl and some slips of paper and pens. Each of you gets to write down their top fantasies on a slip of paper and put them in the bowl.
Pick a paper out of the bowl and go for it!
This is the ultimate way to bring fantasy into the bedroom. Obviously, if you’re in the middle of a romantic night for two, it doesn’t make much sense to write ‘threesome’.
On the other hand, with no rules about practicality, you might discover a shared fantasy or fetish you never knew you had.
Your games & ideas
Do you have any sex games of your own to add? Leave a comment below with your ideas!