The original website of The Ejaculation Trainer ebook is no longer available, and the author has stopped responding to messages or supporting the ebook. I tried to find a way to contact him in May 2022, with no luck.
I’ve seen a version of it being sold on Goodreads.com, but nowhere else for now. There’s another guide with the same name on Amazon too, but the author and content are different. I’m not sure how possible it is to access the ebook in its original form now.
I’ll leave this review up in case that changes in the future. For now, my recommended alternative guide to premature ejaculation is another ebook called Ejaculation By Command.
There are many options for men who have premature ejaculation, such as delay sprays, creams, condoms, and some medicines. Even though some desensitizing products can be very effective in the short term, they don’t usually provide permanent results. They also inherently risk giving you erection problems or unpleasant tingling/burning sensations.
The Ejaculation Trainer is different in that it teaches you to control your ejaculation response on a more lasting basis, using only natural techniques that you can do at home right away.
No matter how long you currently last during sex, you can benefit from the course. Whether you have severe premature ejaculation and last less than a minute, or last five minutes but want to improve that time, the information and techniques will help you.
The author, Matt Gordon, writes in a way that’s like having a friendly conversation. He’s personally experienced premature ejaculation, and from that developed this simple and accessible method to learn self-control.
He teaches you all the background information to premature ejaculation that will then make the techniques even more effective.
For example, when you understand the concept of the different stages of arousal, you’ll recognize your own arousal level more easily and then be able to control it.
Matt discusses many quick techniques which will instantly help you last longer. Some you may have heard before, but many more you probably won’t have.
He teaches you how to reprogram your brain, your body, and your ejaculatory response so that you’ll eventually last longer without even needing to think about it.
The effectiveness of the course
When faced with such a serious problem as premature ejaculation, you need to be sure that whatever help you seek has a good success rate. It needs to get to the heart of the problem, hit it from every angle, and be proven to work effectively.
If you take the time to look through the Ejaculation Trainer website you’ll find an impressive number of stories from guys who’ve had success with the course. It’s been used by thousands of men, many of which have left written and audio testimonials (although you can’t see the website anymore, there were a lot of testimonials).
Men get the results they’re looking for because the course is so complete and thorough. As I said earlier, most other products only work temporarily by numbing you.
For many men, premature ejaculation isn’t simply a physical sensitivity issue, and it can’t always be fixed using simple tricks.
The Ejaculation Trainer is successful because it teaches you the following:
- Specific techniques to use in bed immediately.
- Detailed background information about premature ejaculation.
- Hormonal control.
- Physical control.
- Mental control.
- Knowledge and control over your arousal levels.
- Control over your ejaculatory reflex.
The training techniques which will give you a rounded level of control are what makes the course more advanced than other solutions.
If you put the effort in to follow the training program, there’s a good chance you’ll develop ongoing self-control that doesn’t require you to apply a spray or take a pill every day you have sex.
Ease of use
The Ejaculation Trainer is over 100 pages long, but still easy to read and use. Many of the chapters have training exercises within them, so you don’t need to read the whole book before you get started.
You can take it at your own pace, and spend however long you want on the chapters and exercises which you need to. You don’t need to do any extra research as it’s written with clear instructions.
When I first read through the Ejaculation Trainer I remember being surprised by how little I really knew about my own body and mind in relation to self-control during sex.
I had no idea about arousal levels at all or that they could be controlled. I’d never heard that you can get an erection in two different ways, and one way is more likely to make you last longer. I didn’t know where the real point of no return was, or why I’d previously been unable to recognize it.
I was single when I first started on the course, and during the first few weeks, I did notice some improvements to my ejaculation control with the exercises you’re given to do on your own.
It was only around the two month mark when I finally got to put it to the test with a new partner, and it appeared to have made a big difference.
Before the program, I would last an average of 1-5 minutes during sex. After two months of practicing the techniques, I was able to last for much longer than five minutes with my new partner most times we had sex. Over the following weeks and months, that time stayed consistently good.
I also tried to put into action some of the tips in the book which are meant to help you last longer straight away and found them very helpful.
Even though it was a while before I actually got to use some of them with a partner, I found they helped me stay calm and keep control when practicing the solo exercises.
Knowing what I know now, I think that they would have probably helped me last a bit longer from the outset.
Although the quick tips definitely helped, I’m not convinced they are enough on their own to help every man with premature ejaculation to last 10 to 30 minutes right away.
So although the author claims you might be able to last that long from the outset, I think it’s important to remember that the core methods in ejaculation control guides like this one can take time to really pay off.
Maybe you could see that kind of leap if you can last a few minutes already. But if you have severe premature ejaculation, I think you’ll need to put some effort into practicing the techniques as I did.
If you want to cure premature ejaculation naturally, giving the Ejaculation Trainer a go will be worth it if your experience is anything like mine.
Considering the results I had, and the fact that long after writing this review I’m still able to control my arousal levels, I recommend trying it out.
There’s a little bit of hype with the claim of how long you can last for straight away. That shouldn’t distract from the key fact that this is a good guide that has the potential to help you overcome a serious problem.
As I said at the start, I believe that the Ejaculation Trainer website is no longer available or supported by the author. For alternatives, check out these premature ejaculation guides.